Remodeling Your Relationships
Truehome products offer exercises designed to help you create an effective project
team. Learn how to overcome differences in priorities with your partner or house
mates. Manage relationships with professionals and avoid unnecessary risk.
Making Dual Decisions
A home is a profoundly emotional environment. Designing a living space with a spouse
often brings those emotions to the forefront.
Everyone has their own ideas and turf issues often come to the forefront. There’s
a lot of money involved and that adds to the stress. It can be overwhelming.
We believe it is better to face these issues early in the process of buying, building,
or remodeling a home. Avoid relationship conflicts and build a better project by
creating a positive and workable decision-making process so everyone can win.
Remodeling Your Mate
Changes in the architecture or decor of a living space can resolve minor and major
relationship conflicts that occur over and over again in the home. He is neat and
she is not. One partner likes to talk and the other wants to hide. One watches TV
while the other bangs pots in the kitchen.
It is easier to mold your environment
to ease these minor irritations than to “remodel” the behavior of your family members
or roommates. Learn tips and techniques for bringing peace and harmony into your
home.
Transform your design by using a Truehome Life Coach
Truehome technology was used for almost a decade in an award-winning residential
architecture firm before coming to the Internet. Many of those projects were designed
using a breakthrough method. A Life Coach or therapist was included on the design
team!
When a professional who understands your emotional needs teams up with an
architect or interior designer who understands how to implement them...it becomes
possible to tailor your living space more accurately to who you are and how you
live.
Privacy and Intimacy
We all have needs that relate to intimacy and privacy. Truehome shows you how to
manage them in an entirely different way. We all want to be alone at times, and
intimate at others.
Every human being regulates his or her interpersonal boundaries
many times a day. Like a cell membrane, this natural process allows some requests
for intimacy to pass through, and keeps others out.
But sometimes these cycles don’t
match in a relationship and feelings get hurt.
Couples, parents, children, and others who live in close quarters often fall into
unconstructive patterns of behavior when these daily rhythms are not aligned. One
wants more intimacy, feels insecure, and needs support. The other feels smothered
and desires more personal space.
To complicate matters, a few hours later they may
switch roles. Truehome helps family members and roommates negotiate these issues
so bonds are strengthened.
Professional Relationships
Buying, building, or remodeling a home is risky business. A report by the
National Association of Consumer Agency Administrators and the Consumer Federation
of America found that home improvement contracting was the top complaint category
in the United States in 2005, and in the five previous years had been one of the
top three areas of consumer complaints.
Real estate agents also have an image problem. According to a May 2006 Harris Poll,
only 7% of consumers trust real estate professionals completely, and 20% don’t trust
them at all!
Architects and Interior designers are sometimes seen as prima donnas
who want to impose their visions on their clients.
Builders and contractors often
struggle to gain trust from their clients, too. Many people see them as greedy,
inconsiderate, or incompetent.
Most professionals are sincere competent people who do their best to serve their
clients, but in a world where a few bad apples have given a bad reputation to the
whole barrel, we help you tailor your professional relationships to fit your
needs.
And we help you protect yourself from taking unnecessary risks.
Good relationships are critical to creating a team that can implement the deep criteria
that are developed during your journey to your Truehome.
Our Major Projects and Lifestyle Editions offer a series of exercises called
Remodeling Your Relationships.
Those exercises help you
avoid conflict with your housemates, show you how to alter your architecture to avoid conflict,
and aid you in discovering professionals who
match your unique goals.
In 2008, Truehome’s Professional Matching Service will
launch and allow you to find Professionals that match you exact needs.
(Available by the Fall of 2007)